Every man wants and desires a blissful marriage. Every man wants a woman who will respect and honor him. As a man, you want a woman that will be loyal and humble to you. No matter how you look at it, the regard you want can be given to you if you put certain things in place.
You can have all you desire! The truth is that you can have the appreciation you want in marriage. This article exposes the necessary things that must be. Please read on!
If you like your wife to value you, then you must love and cherish her. You must care for her and be there to meet her needs. You are there to provide her need and protect your marriage as the man of the house. Know that love is like an encampment you build around you. Learn to treasure her dearly. This will gradually make her have regard for you. The humility and loyalty you desire will eventually be seen in her.
If you can pay very close attention to her and to the things that concern her, then you are on your way to winning her honor. Learn to compliment her when she does something good. You must be attentive and get involved in her affairs. Not necessarily intruding, but honestly developing a genuine interest. Value and appreciate her, even in her weakness. Encourage her ability, quality, credibility, nature and even her significance.
You can get all you want especially her obedience to you if you can only live by example. You have to live a life that is worthy of emulation. Know that respect is not bought, but can only be earned. To earn it, you have to invest in your life through the way you talk, act, react, respond and even relate to people. Know that you have a great influence over your wife, because she learns from you. If she sees how you treat your boss disrespectfully, even how you handle or address your family members, friends and those you meet, there is every tendency she won’t respect you either. So if you want to gain her respect, you have to first of all be respectful. If you are not, then you have to start today and you will see a change in your wife.
One thing that will discourage your wife is if you are brutal to her. No woman can respect a man that is cruel and beats her up. You don’t have to beat her to show you are a man. If you like beating your wife, know that you are creating a wide bridge between you and your wife. Don’t be barbarous or harsh to her. Learn to pet and adore. Never beat your wife, because will make her take you for granted.
The easiest way to gain her respect is by being faithful and fully devoted to her. Let your affection, passion, attention, dedication, commitment, allegiance and fidelity be to her and for her alone. Be true to her in all you do. Once you are sincere in your dealings, she will have no option than to respect you. Know that her treatment towards you is as a result of what she sees and knows about you. Show her the right path and see how she will diligently follow you. Don’t forget that honor and obedience can only be learned by observation. It is you duty to set a good example for her to follow. As you do all these, watch out as your marriage turns into what you desire it to be.