For those of you who try to win your ex girlfriend back, knowing that she’s in a rebound relationship, you find yourself feeling hopeless.
Most guys in this position find it almost impossible to win their girlfriend back. Some, not knowing exactly how to react accordingly to a rebound relationship, strained their relationship even further.
However, many also have successfully won their girlfriend back after knowing how to take advantage and act accordingly of a rebound relationship. Why can’t I be like that? You silently ask this question, when in this situation; you can ask yourself what you need to do to win her back.
The further on you read this article, you find yourself feeling better, as you shift from hopeless to hopeful feelings.
Surely you’ve heard of couples that has miraculously gotten back together, remember. How these couples manage to do it, no longer a mystery. Winning the love of your ex back is a learned behavior. Just like dating, it can be corrected and learned!
An insight on your situation may reveal to you how a rebound relationship is not the real issue standing between you and winning her back.
One of the trusted online resources revealed a rebound relationship is a relationship proceeding a long term relationship, usually short in duration and is used to help mend a broken heart.
You can comfortably agree this is a true case as for your ex girlfriend, as it keeps her from having to deal with her mixed emotions, breaking up with you. You can somehow notice as mentioned, it keeps her from having to deal with her mixed emotions. What it really means is, while she is in a rebound relationship she actually cannot help her self not thinking of you. Her situation actually tells you linger in her mind. Other wise she won’t be in it in the first place.
And that’s initially an important indication you remain in her memories. Realizing that is your vital key of feeling hopeful to win her back.
Now, knowing this, what if a rebound relationship she’s in cannot show you how to win her back?
It doesn’t matter why the break up happened, nor it matters not who called it off. What matters most is that you are her real love as long as you remain in her mind. And a relationship based on real love, can be salvage even if it’s not easy for you right now.
Now guys, stay with me on this, knowing she’s in a rebound relationship, you can rest assured, she will be focusing on what she probably think, is missing in you. And you can easily find out what it is and work on it while giving her some space with the new guy.
As an example, if you were a “good guy” she’ll probably be hanging out with a “bad boy”. Another clear example would be as if you were into outdoors, she’ll looks forward watching Monday Night Football.
What does this means to you?
Exactly, you are right; she wants something which in most cases, is the opposite of your character or behavior.
As you begin to see how a rebound relationship can truly serve you well, the fact that she is actually focusing on searching something on the other person which is not in you, certainly it is good for you for two primary reasons right now:
Firstly, her mind is still lingers on you even when she’s with the new guy. And secondly, it gives you an advance knowledge of what she’s looking for (something missing in you), so you could work at it and become the person that she truly admires and love all her heart without neglecting the primary reasons she fell for you in those early days.
Of course you still remember those early days you got together, right?
As this rebound relationship is taking place, you can use all the time you have to improve yourself working on winning her back.
What you can do is to allow the rebound relationship running its course because as she spends her time with the new guy, soon she will experience the flaws in him. With patience, after a month or so working yourself up, you’ll start to look pretty good. Whether you realize or not, you are paving your way to win her back.
This is the reason many relationship experts recommends not crawl back to your ex girlfriend right away, so to let herself unfold the idea that she misses the good things in you.
At this point however, you may appear in her life. The reason is to intensify her feeling toward you. There are various ways you can do this! For instance, walking by in front of her and always wear a smile as if you remained friends. Be a new and improved ex boyfriend, and avoid doing the chasing. Once she notice your transformation, she’ll likely to open up.
Here are some specific steps, if you choose to avoid, will always increases your chances to win your girlfriend back. You want it to happen to you, don’t you?
* Convince her that you are the love of her life. Let her discover this on her own.
* Apologize profusely.
* Make promises to change. You are who you are and that’s who she fell in love with in the first place, remember?
* Blame her over the break up. She will come to appreciate you over time – but only if you haven’t made her invest her energy in defending her position that it was your fault.
* Go down on you knees and ask her to take you back! Save it for the marriage proposal.
Can you picture yourself going out there and win your ex girlfriend back? What if you can do it, can you imagine the feeling? Think about it. It’s not easy for you right now.
I can imagine that. Standing in your corner, it’s hard for you to look at your ex dating someone else when actually you are in the midst trying to patch things up, but I think you would agree that the issue is not about knowing this is happening, more importantly, it’s about seeing this in a new perspectives and going out facing it and doing something great with them.
This process can be brief depending on your understanding of the steps you will take. With understanding, you will soon begin to see your ex girlfriend starts to open up. Again, winning your ex back is a behavior that can be learned and corrected, remember!